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Help please
Posted by domilynn on 2010-05-18 20:57:45 |
| I am not a wiccan, but i desperatly need the help of one, I am very lost and confused right now. and I am ready to give up. |
| Posted by domilynn on 2010-05-18 21:17:06 |
| this is my situation....I was with my boyfriend for a year. 6 months of that year, he was deployed. Before he left for deployment, we were already living together, but had made plans to get a new apartment once he returned. During his deployment he didn't know if he was going to stay in the military once he got back because his enlistment was up. He chose to get out, and he was going to move back home to Massachusetts. We had planned on trying to make a long distance relationship work. the last week of his deployment he met a girl, that he said was a good friend, because they could relate with art and the deployment thing. I understood, but still felt kinda hurt bc he didn't really talk to me those last few weeks before he got back. He got back we went on vacation to florida and everything was great, but he said he couldn't do the distance thing, and that he need to focus on him before we could move forward in our relationship. I understood this, and tried to be supportive. I contacted a psychic after he left, she told me that he was my soul mate and we were meant to be together.......this was a month ago. I just went recently went to visit him and the few days i was there it was like nothing had changed, it was like we were back to being us. But still kinda weary of the other girl so i contacted another psychic who told me that someone has put a spell/work on our relationship. She gave me a white candle and told me to burn it to a certain point for four days. But I dont know if this is true, and what i can do. I really love him and i do want us to be together. I know he loves me, because of conversations he's had with my friends. if someone could please help or give me some kind of guidence it would really be helpful |
| Posted by Lunarsage on 2010-05-18 21:24:53 |
| You say he loves you. The best thing you can do is trust him. If you have suspicions about this other girl and reasons to be so, than surely one of us can help you to see what's going on. But if it is not absolutely necessary, try to trust him. You can't have a solid relationship without trust. I hope you flourish with him, and good luck :^) Blessed be. -Lunarsage |
| Posted by domilynn on 2010-05-18 21:35:08 |
| what kind of help can you give me? I do trust him but at the same time im just really scared and I dont know what to think. |
| Posted by Raito9 on 2010-05-20 21:27:18 |
| I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm having a hard time trying to see the smart part in this. You went to a psychic to see if your boyfriend who has a girl friend is cheating? You obviously dont have much faith in him. You're asking us to use magic to help you with your suspicions of your cheating boyfriend. Try not to take offense here, if you do, I apologize. But it seems like your a person who knows nothing of magic but are interested. You have no clue how magic works, but want it to solve your problems for you. Why try to do what normal people do and actually sit down and speak with him? If he has found someone new, move on and stay friends. You're only 22. Thats pretty young. I'm sure you'll be able to find someone new. It may take some time, but it'll happen. Don't be like so many people we see here. Don't come here blind to what magic is and think it'll solve your problems for you. Some problems cant be solved by magic. I'm not trying to be mean to you, just honest. I do hope it works out for you, but if it doesnt, dont cling. Move on. |
| Posted by Raito9 on 2010-05-20 21:31:25 |
| PS You cant trust every psychic. I dont even think all psychics are real. I'm not even sure I belive in psychics. Despite how weird that sounds, not every wiccan beleives the same thing, and believe in everything wicca has to offer. Perhaps this pshycic picked up on your distress and told you what you would believe. Be careful. |
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