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could use some help with something...
Posted by DaughterofAnubis on 2010-07-10 15:24:24
Hey everyone, I've been having a lot of bad dreams about my ex and really just thinking about him way too much in general. He was my 1st relationship and it was a very messy break up, so these nihgtmares are extremely bad. It's beginning to effect my ability to focus on anything and I was wondering if anyone knows any spells or maybe dreampillows that might help me. Something that maybe keep away nightmares, purges bad thoughts, improves focus, anything. Thanks, Blessed Be.

Posted by Revdave on 2010-07-10 18:37:39
pillow from hops or even catnip tea at bedtime.sometime skullcap as well.mail me if you have aka's or simuliar reactions from drugs from the doctor's office.

Posted by AlmostWitch137 on 2010-07-10 20:08:53
sounds to me like your stress is coming out through your subconscious via your dreams. happens to me all the time. occurs a lot when you bottle things instead of dealing with them head on.

best suggestion on my end is to work it out mentally. lavender helps you relax at night, but its not gonna do much help, considering its your own thoughts that are causing you grief.

i had a very similar situation. i left my first and only love of my life, for something i thought would be better. and 4 years later, realized i made a BIIIG mistake. it used to torture me..a LOT.

then i worked it out mentally: if i didnt leave him at that particular moment, i would have never learnt the lessons i did, i never would have gotten sober, i never would have turned into the person i am today. i would have turned out a lot worse because i would have never learnt the lessons i did, during that 4 years of bullshit.
so, if i ever meet him again, i will thank him for giving me the chance to learn those things, and for making me a better person. :)

bottling the stress wont make the nightmares go away. work it out as best you can.

best of luck!

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