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Needs help making a spell
Posted by Tanllwyth on 2012-01-28 19:46:36 |
| so I've been working on my personal BoS but I have now found the need for a spell I cannot perfect. I know when I do spells for other people I need details, so this is the situation in an overview... I need a new love spell for the guy I crave, but I don't have any for when said guy dips out and then starts dating a girl who's cheating on him. He's a great man, and I love him with all my heart, and I only want what's best for him and it's not her. I know I made him happy, but he has some issues regarding relationships that I have no idea how to confront (also he's Christian so he has no idea I'm Wiccan so it can't be anything too drastic because I'm sure he'll notice) So what I need is something to either lead him back home so I can help him or at least something to open his eyes so he can see who he's really with (Oh by the way, she's dating her current ex, another guy, and the one I want back) I've been thinking about maybe sending a little surprise her way too, but I haven't decided what I want yet. That's for another day. If anyone can help me I would greatly appreciate it! I work alone, nobody knows how serious I am about my casting, so it's hard for me to get the help I need for spells (Which is why I am here!!) By the way, HI EVERYONE!! I'm new :D Blessed Be. Tanllwyth |
| Posted by dimejar on 2012-01-29 10:21:11 |
| First be very careful of this because we are not supposed to mess with free will,besides if he has stepped out on someone he will probably do it to you and I'm sure you deserve better.If you still feel like you must then look in the section on spells above you might find some inspiration there in other spells.As far as the the other person let that be they will bring about their own demise.Remember that Karma does exist and the 3 fold law is real.I hope this helps.Blessed Be |
| Posted by Tanllwyth on 2012-01-29 12:57:33 |
| I know Karma, and believe in it greatly. I do not wish to bend his will, but open his eyes so he can see who he is with. His friend and I have both tried to warn him about this girl, but he will not listen. Stubborn in his ways, too ignorant to see what is in front of him. I am just trying to figure out what would be best for him, but I know it is not her. I do not wish to steal him from her, a spell to make someone love you is not real love, and I would not do that to him or myself. So I guess what I am looking for is something to show him what she is. I have been considering a dream spell, maybe that would help him. But thank you, I appreciate the concern but I do know our boundries and would not even consider anything black. I can see how my last message would seem one sided, but I just want my friend back. He is someone I have been friends with for 5 years now, and she is destroying him. I have never seen him this upset, and he does not even know to full story yet. It is just one big mess. Thank you for replying. Blessed be Tanllwyth |
| Posted by dimejar on 2012-01-31 09:37:44 |
| My apology's if I came across a little inconsiderate it was not my intention,now with a alittle more info I see what you are looking for.I think a dream spell sounds like the perfect fit,something to show him the life in front of him by opening his third eye.Do you know if he pays any attention to his dreams?If not this might need repeating,maybe if he has the same type of dream over the course of a few days he might get the real picture.I was in a similar situation years ago with my best friend and it took a repetitive dream over the course of a month to see this girl was just using him.He told me one day(after about 3 1/2 weeks about this strange dream he keeps having,I just smiled)he was having a dream this girl was using him and he kept seeing himself walking away from her.I was doing a happy dance inside.Now more than 20 years later we are still friends and she is not even a memory.Happy workings and as always Blessed Be |
| Posted by Tanllwyth on 2012-02-01 10:39:12 |
| Sadly, I was too late. He didn't need to see it with his third eye, he walked in on her and saw it himself. :/ I should've been quicker. Maybe I can still help. Is it possible to give him dreams to soften this blow? To better understand him, he's been in this situation before. He falls desperately in love with a girl who is no good for him, and sadly then he believes her word over anyone else's and it takes sitatuions like seeing her cheat for him to come through. Maybe an overall eye opener. thank you so much for helping me with this! I've never had anyone I could get advice from for my work. that's the reason I joined this site afterall! Blessed be |
| Posted by dimejar on 2012-02-06 15:36:34 |
| Absolutely no problem,I'm sorry you could not stop his heartache.You sound like a great friend but sometimes we need to see things for ourselves to really believe it.Maybe doing a dream spell where he can slow himself down from falling in love so quickly.You might try giving him suggestions(in dreams)as to looking on his past loves it just might slow his heart from falling so fast and hard.If all else fails stand by his side and help him to talk himself to through it.May the Goddess shine her light upon you and yours,Blessed Be. |
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